From the file. Written for the paper dated May 1990. Opened in the public stacks July 14, 2026.
In an era where political rancor seems to be the order of the day, the value of patience as a virtue is often overlooked - by both sides of the aisle. As we navigate the complexities of today's political landscape, it is imperative to examine how selective memory shapes the narratives of the left and the right.
The Left's Lament
The left has long championed the cause of social justice, equality, and civil rights. Yet, in their fervent quest for progress, they often forget the fundamental importance of patience. Take, for instance, the ongoing debates surrounding welfare reform and social programs. Advocates on the left tend to dismiss any suggestion of moderation or gradual change as an attack on the very fabric of social welfare. In doing so, they risk alienating potential allies who recognize the need for reform but fear the radicalism that has come to characterize leftist rhetoric.
This selective memory also manifests in a failure to acknowledge past successes. The civil rights movement, while undeniably successful, was not achieved overnight. It took years of patience, negotiation, and compromise, often in the face of fierce opposition. Yet, many on the left today seem to forget that the victories they cherish were built on the backs of those who persevered through hardship and disappointment. Instead, they demand immediate results, often to the detriment of the very causes they champion.
The Right's Resentment
On the other side, the right frequently invokes a nostalgic vision of America that is equally selective. The conservative agenda often revolves around a longing for a time when, they believe, America was more unified and less divided. However, this perspective ignores the complexities of our nation’s history, including the struggles for civil rights, labor rights, and the myriad challenges faced by different communities.
Moreover, the right's push for immediate tax cuts and deregulation reflects an impatience that could undermine long-term economic stability. While the desire to stimulate growth is commendable, the refusal to consider the potential consequences of such policies demonstrates a troubling lack of foresight. Once again, the virtue of patience is cast aside in favor of a quick fix, one that may leave future generations to grapple with the fallout.
"Patience is not simply waiting; it is the ability to keep a good attitude while waiting." - Joyce Meyer
Common Ground
Both sides of the political spectrum would do well to remember that the most enduring changes in society are rarely accomplished in haste. The virtue of patience is not merely an abstract concept; it is a practical approach that invites dialogue, fosters understanding, and ultimately leads to meaningful progress. It is about recognizing that the path to change is often winding and fraught with obstacles, requiring a commitment to engage rather than to simply react.
To bridge the divide, both left and right must cultivate patience in their political discourse. This means taking the time to listen to opposing viewpoints, acknowledging the validity of differing experiences, and striving for compromise rather than confrontation. The current climate of mutual disdain only serves to deepen the chasm between us, preventing any constructive dialogue from taking place.
Conclusion
As we move forward, let us challenge ourselves to embody patience in our political interactions. A commitment to understanding and compromise is essential if we hope to navigate the tumultuous waters of contemporary American politics. The habit of selective memory, whether on the left or the right, only serves to obscure the realities we face and the solutions we seek.
It is time for both sides to embrace a more measured approach, grounded in the understanding that true progress takes time. By fostering an environment where patience is valued, we can begin to heal the divides that separate us and work together towards a more equitable future.
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