July 1984 · National edition

Opinion

On Patience As A Virtue, and the bipartisan habit of selective memory

A Opinion desk reading of patience as a virtue, filed 1984-07.

From the file. Written for the paper dated July 1984. Opened in the public stacks July 14, 2026.

In a time when political discourse has become increasingly polarized, the virtue of patience is often lost amid the fervor of partisan zeal. Both sides of the political spectrum find themselves engaging in a selective memory that undermines reasoned debate and hinders progress.

School Portraits
School Portraits. Photo: Bart Everson from New Orleans, Louisiana, USA via Wikimedia Commons (CC BY 2.0)

The Left's Quick-Fix Mentality

The left, in its pursuit of social justice and equality, often resorts to a quick-fix mentality. This approach is evident in the calls for immediate reforms without sufficient consideration of the long-term implications. While the intentions are noble, the execution frequently overlooks the complexities of the issues at hand. For example, the push for expansive social programs is often championed as a panacea for poverty and inequality, yet the underlying economic realities are frequently minimized or ignored.

Moreover, the left's tendency to demonize opponents can lead to a narrow view of the political landscape. In this climate, the virtues of patience and compromise are sacrificed at the altar of ideological purity. The result is a lack of meaningful dialogue and an absence of the collaborative spirit necessary to address complex societal problems.

Greenwood, circa 1984
Greenwood, circa 1984. Photo: Bart Everson from New Orleans, Louisiana, USA via Wikimedia Commons (CC BY 2.0)

The Right's Rhetoric of Resentment

On the other side of the aisle, the right's rhetoric often leans into a culture of resentment, painting a vivid picture of an America under siege. This narrative, while compelling, often ignores the progress made through the very policies they criticize. The right’s selective memory tends to glorify the past while vilifying the present, leading to a nostalgic vision that does not account for the realities of growth and change.

Furthermore, the insistence on rigid adherence to traditional values can stifle innovation and adaptation. In their quest to preserve the past, many on the right overlook the necessity of evolving social norms that reflect the diverse fabric of American society. This unwillingness to engage with new ideas in a patient and thoughtful manner can breed division and stagnation.

The Dangers of Selective Memory

Bipartisan selective memory is not only a hindrance to effective policy-making but also a detriment to the very fabric of democracy. When each side cherry-picks facts and history to fit their narrative, it creates an environment where genuine understanding is overshadowed by a commitment to winning arguments. The focus shifts from problem-solving to point-scoring, and the result is a disillusioned electorate that feels increasingly alienated from their government.

Patience, as a virtue, calls for the willingness to engage with differing viewpoints and to embrace the complexities of political challenges. It requires a commitment to understanding the historical context of current events and recognizing that solutions often take time to implement and bear fruit. In a political climate marked by instant gratification and rapid-fire responses, it is essential to cultivate an atmosphere that values deliberation and thoughtful consideration.

Finding Common Ground

To counteract the excesses of both the left and the right, it is incumbent upon citizens and leaders alike to foster a culture of patience. This begins with acknowledging the contributions and shortcomings of both sides. Embracing a more nuanced understanding of policy issues can lead to innovative solutions that reflect the concerns of a broader constituency.

Efforts to bridge the divide must include open forums for discussion, where individuals can share their perspectives without fear of retribution. By creating spaces for dialogue, we can begin to dismantle the barriers erected by partisan rhetoric and work toward a shared vision for the future.

“Patience is not simply waiting; it is the active engagement in understanding and resolving the complexities of our time.”

The Role of the Electorate

The electorate has a crucial role to play in this equation. Voters must demand accountability from their representatives and reject the politics of division. By supporting candidates who prioritize transparency, collaboration, and patience, citizens can help reshape the political landscape to one that values constructive dialogue over divisive tactics.

Moreover, civic education must be a priority, equipping individuals with the tools necessary to engage thoughtfully in political discourse. Understanding the history and implications of policy decisions can foster a more informed electorate, capable of holding leaders accountable while advocating for effective governance.

A Call to Action

As we navigate the complexities of our political environment, let us remember that the pursuit of progress is a marathon, not a sprint. Patience is a virtue that can guide us through the tumultuous waters of partisanship. By recognizing the limitations of our selective memories, we can begin to forge a path toward a more collaborative and constructive political atmosphere.

In doing so, we not only honor the principles of democracy but also pave the way for a future where understanding and patience prevail over division and discord.


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