December 2023 · National edition

Opinion

On Middle Seat Method, and the bipartisan habit of selective memory

A Opinion desk reading of middle seat method, filed 2023-12.

From the file. Written for the paper dated December 2023. Opened in the public stacks July 14, 2026.

In a time marked by heightened polarization, the middle seat method emerges as a critical lens through which we can analyze the bipartisan habit of selective memory. Both sides of the political spectrum often choose to remember or ignore certain historical narratives to fit their agendas, leading to a distorted understanding of our collective past.

Main Street in Port Washington, NY on September 31, 2022, looking towards the west from just east of Herbert Avenue. Out of view to the left is the Port Washing
Main Street in Port Washington, NY on September 31, 2022, looking towards the west from just east of Herbert Avenue. Out of view to the left is the Port Washington Long Island Rail Road station. Photo: AITFFan1 via Wikimedia Commons (CC0)

The Middle Seat Method: A Framework for Understanding

The middle seat method can be understood as a metaphorical approach to navigating the complex landscape of modern politics. Just as sitting in the middle seat of an airplane offers a unique perspective - between the window and aisle - this method encourages us to view political issues from multiple angles. It prompts us to acknowledge the strengths and weaknesses of both the left and the right while recognizing the pitfalls of their selective memories.

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In recent months, we have witnessed a barrage of narratives emerging from both major parties, each framed to bolster their respective positions. The left often recalls a history of social justice struggles, emphasizing the importance of progress in civil rights and equality. Meanwhile, the right frequently cites economic growth and national security as pillars of their legacy, glossing over the darker chapters that accompanied these achievements. Both sides, in their quest to reinforce their ideological purity, conveniently overlook the complexities that define our shared history.

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The Left’s Selective Memory

On the left, the selective memory tends to focus on moments of triumph in the fight for equality, highlighting significant legislation and social movements. This narrative often paints a picture of an ongoing struggle against systemic oppression, framing current events in a way that emphasizes the need for continued activism. However, such a narrative can obscure the progress made and the nuanced realities of policies implemented in the past that may not have delivered the intended outcomes.

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"Both sides, in their quest to reinforce their ideological purity, conveniently overlook the complexities that define our shared history."

For instance, while the left rightly champions the advancements made in LGBTQ+ rights, it sometimes downplays the backlash and the complexities of implementing these rights across diverse communities. This selective memory can create a disconnect between the ideals of progress and the realities faced by various groups within the movement, leading to a lack of solidarity among those who share the goal of equality.

The Right’s Selective Memory

Conversely, the right often leans on a narrative of American exceptionalism, celebrating the nation’s founding principles while ignoring the more problematic aspects of its history, such as colonialism, slavery, and systemic inequality. This approach serves to fortify a sense of pride among its supporters, but it also simplifies a complex history that cannot be understood through a lens of nostalgia alone.

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The right’s emphasis on economic success is another example of selective memory at play. While it is true that deregulation and tax cuts have historically led to economic booms, the adverse effects of these policies - such as income inequality and environmental degradation - are frequently omitted from the conversation. By celebrating only the victories, the right creates a narrative that overlooks the consequences of its policies, leading to a skewed understanding of the present economic landscape.

The Danger of Selective Memory

The bipartisan habit of selective memory poses a significant threat to the fabric of our democracy. When both sides prioritize their narratives over a comprehensive understanding of history, it fosters division and alienation among citizens. This selective remembrance not only diminishes the validity of opposing viewpoints but also perpetuates a cycle of misinformation and misunderstanding.

In a time when collaboration and compromise are essential, the consequences of this selective memory become even more pronounced. Political discourse becomes less about finding common ground and more about reinforcing echo chambers where only agreeable narratives are tolerated. This environment stifles genuine dialogue, making it increasingly challenging to address the pressing issues facing our society.

Moving Forward: Embracing Complexity

To combat the pitfalls of selective memory, we must embrace a more nuanced understanding of history and current events. The middle seat method urges us to acknowledge the complexities and contradictions inherent in our shared narrative. Rather than striving for ideological purity, we should aim for a more comprehensive dialogue that includes diverse perspectives, even when they challenge our own beliefs.

As we approach the upcoming elections, it is imperative for citizens to engage with the full spectrum of history and policy. This engagement requires an openness to the uncomfortable truths that exist on both sides of the political aisle. Only through a shared commitment to understanding our collective past can we hope to build a future that is truly reflective of all our experiences.

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